There are various ways you can apologies to your partner. Apologizing helps to keep a relationship strong.
There is no way you and your partner will not argue and fight because even the smoothest relationships have their own flaws. Knowing how to resolve it is what keeps them going on fine.
To maintain, keep and sustain your relationship, here are the 6 things you must learn to do.
1. Admit your mistake whenever you are wrong
When you are wrong, admit your mistake and stop giving silly excuses. Definitely, your partner would know you are sorry when you go to apologize. It shows that you care and you still want the relationship going rather than trying to prove you are right when you are actually wrong.
2. Stop giving excuses
People make the mistake of giving excuses when trying to apologize. Making excuses means you are not sorry for your mistake. Learn to stop giving unnecessary excuse when you apologize.
3. Avoid repeating the same mistake
After you have admitted you're wrong and you have apologized, sit down and think of what made your partner mad at you and quit it, because if you keep repeating the same thing you will keep fighting over and over again.When you ensure you don't repeat what caused your argument, you then prove to your partner that you are really sorry. Not trying to avoid those things even after you admit your mistake isn’t really enough until you change.
4. Learn to be specific
Be specific when you apologize, be sorry and let your partner know what you are apologizing for. No matter what you must have done to hurt your partner, say it and be truthful to them. Even if you cheated on your partner, be specific, be sorry and be honest when apologizing.
5. Be sensitive
Learn to empathetic when you hurt your partner. Even when they do not show that they are hurt, know that you made them feel pained at that moment. So, it is necessary that you let them know you understand the pain you made them go through. Instead of just saying sorry, you should let them know you understand your actions caused them so much pain and you are truly sorry. They will know that you are really sorry and that you will not want them to go through the pain again.
6. Show emotion
It shows you are sincere when you are not afraid of showing your emotions to your partner. You will get to win your partner's trust, love and respect back by making a heartfelt apology, so learn to show genuine emotions.
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