MENINGITIS HAS KILLED OVER 1000 PEOPLE ALREADY IN NIGERIA

More than 1,000 people have died in an outbreak of meningitis in Nigeria, the Centre for Disease Control said Thursday, but added that the spread of the disease is slowing. The outbreak has mostly affected children in Africa’s most populous country. 

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#TalkToTOBBIE - THE STAGES OF A RELATIONSHIP AND ITS AFTERMATHS

Down The Path
I remember starting the journey of life as just a fetus down to being a baby to being an infant to a teenager to youth and an adult. *whew* seems am about to start talking.

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Ladies Come Over! Here Are 10 Things Your Man Should Never Make You Do, No Matter How much you love him

You might think that you love your man so much, you’d do absolutely anything for him, but then again, there are also some things a man simply should never ask a woman to do for him.
Being in a relationship doesn't mean that you have to give up the right to be an individual, with a mind of your own, so find out where the line has to be drawn and read these ten things no man should ever ask a girl to do:
By Beautyandtips.com

10. Force you to stay when you really want to leave

If you are really unhappy in a relationship, then you should end it. Don’t let a man force to you to stay, just because he doesn’t want it to end and, don’t let him make you stay through emotional blackmail either.

9. Have an abortion

Things happen and, if an unexpected pregnancy occurs, then the man must step up to the mark and take his responsibilities seriously.

He should never, under any circumstances, tell the woman to have an abortion. That is a very emotional decision that only the woman can make and then the man should be there to support her, whatever she decides.

8. Be more of a girl

Yes, some guys do still think that girls should know their place! Well, don’t stand for it.
If you are not the pretty pink, candy floss, stay at home type, then don’t be.
Get out there and do the things that you want to do, even if he does think that they are not ‘girly’ enough pastimes.

7. Stop seeing your friends:

You do need a life outside of a relationship and friends are an important part of that.

If he is trying to stop you from going out with your friends, then that’s a sign of his own insecurities or of his controlling nature and you shouldn’t be putting up with it.

6. Change who you are:

A man should not ask you to change who you are because, if you do, then it will only be pretence and you won’t be happy pretending to be someone else.

5. Have a baby before you are ready:

It’s your body and you will know when the time is right for you to have children.
Kids aren’t just accessories that go with a relationship, they are a huge, long term, commitment and both partners must be sure that they are ready for that.

4. Forget your dreams:

Whether its finishing college, going to university, having kids or following a career, a man should never ask to you give up your dreams for him.

You should be able to work together, so that you can both follow your dreams and share them together.

3. Have physical intimacy without protection:

Unless you are really settled in a long term relationship, then physical intimacy without a ‘protection’ is an obvious no-no and a man should never ask you to do it.

Some guys do still have a hang up about using a safety hat, but, if he has that little respect for you, then it should be telling you something more about this man.

2. Switch religions or beliefs:

Convert or go is not a thing that anyone should be told, because your beliefs are your own and they should not be up for negotiation.

If he can persuade you to modify your beliefs, through rational and logical debate, and you are comfortable with that, then that’s no problem. But, it should be your decision alone, no one else’s.

1. Stop seeing your family:

Relationships with the in-laws can often be fraught, but he doesn’t have the right to tell you to stop seeing your family, or to make you choose between them and him.

Your family were around way before him and they could be around long after too. -beautyandtips.com

Thank God for my life...

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Must Read!!! : When She Claims Loving You and a Wife Material and You Meet Her in a Club This Way

If you wer the one guy that takes a lady pretty serious just because she is forming a good lady and a loving me attitude is her order of the day. For your mind, she is the best out chere

... I laugh in swahili...

However, if you meet your awesome bae in the club sm()king Sh!sha and sm()ke dey comot for her nose like say she be SHANGO, Well congragulations, you be OKO OYA!!!

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Nigeria Senator Condemns 2017 Budget, Says Budget Lacks Details

The Nigeria cabinates of senators yesterday pin-pointed holes in the 2017 Appropriation Bill submitted to both chambers of the National Assembly for consideration and approval.
While majority of the senators, who made their submissions at the floor of the Senate, pointed out that the proposed appropriation bill lacked details and also complained of the poor performance of the 2016 budget by the executive.

Former Senate leader, Mohammed Ali Ndume, faulted the 2017 Appropriation Bill, describing it as lacking relevant details.

Ndume, who represents Borno South in the upper chamber, said the senators were not privy to the details of the 2017 budget, describing the situation as worrisome and an obstacle to government’s plan to execute developmental projects in the country.

The former Senate leader, who had earlier raised Order 15 Standing Rules of the Senate to protest the delay by the presiding officer, the Senate president, in recognising him to speak, picked holes in the general budget performance, especially as it concerns the humanitarian crisis in the North East.

The lawmaker had urged the Senate Committee on Appropriation to increase the budgetary allocation to crisis in the North East from N42 billion to N100 billion in order to address the grave humanitarian challenges in the area.

Ndume said: “The budget we have been passing in the past years lacked one important ingredient, which is details. Some of us are ignorant and innocent. The 2017 budget has no details. That is why we continue to have abandoned projects in the country. We, as senators, don’t have the details of the budget.

“For the humanitarian crisis in the North East, my colleagues will not be tired to hear my voice. I urge the appropriation committee to allocate a reasonable sum to the humanitarian crisis in the North East from N45 billion to N100 billion.”

Full story at - Leadership NG

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